We humans try far too often to understand matters although we should actually be aware that we lack the complete necessary knowledge, therefore we usually do not realize that we can not reach the goal that we actually wanted to achieve. However, since we prefer to devote ourselves rather than others, it can be difficult to develop a certain understanding for things that we do not understand on our own.
Feelings and Emotions are something strange, they surround us in so many effects whose origin we overlook through the reality we have created for ourselves and through ourselves. Or in other words by their number of reasons and underlying memories simply can not perceive at all. Since we humans are not aware of this, or can not be aware of it, it is almost impossible to express ourselves clearly within a short time or to get to know each other.
We humans are confronted from time to time with matters we do not understand. Often it does not hurt to think about what caused the situation, and what effects can be caused by something. Those who carry too much uncertainty around with them, without making any attempt to confront it, will see their own memories disintegrate over time. We humans are part of nature, and nature is always trying to create the clearest possible picture and structure itself. Thus, our own life path automatically exerts influence on the change of past memories. We humans always consist of a collective in the end, and thereby also of different opinions.
Harmony and cohesion are a strange thing, both interact and yet one usually springs from the other. The positive cohesion of a group often forms a harmonic effect, whereby a goal can usually be achieved faster and more effectively. Harmony is probably similar to blind understanding, which can make it more difficult for a stranger to communicate with a group of people who are surrounded by something like harmony. This can create an impression of rejection, which ultimately can only be understood through self-protection of the persons concerned. We humans usually defend what has a positive effect for us without thinking about the fact that the circumstances were often not different for us in the past. The price of “being better” is often underpinned by one’s own life path, but one must be clear that one distorts oneself if what is said does not match what one has experienced.
Sometimes I have the impression that life is just too confused. If you experience something in the past that is difficult to process, you can experience a moment in the future that creates a new perspective, which in turn makes certain memories more understandable and easier to process. But what and who decides whether one may experience such a moment? Is it fate, coincidence, or simply the passage of time? If we humans could understand more about why some things are the way they are, it would certainly be better for everyone to live. Unfortunately, much can not be explained by logic, especially as long as the view does not match with what one experiences. This is probably one of the problems of the human race. We distort ourselves to make something more pleasant, and forget why things are actually the way they should be.
Isn’t it strange how extremely we let ourselves be influenced by our environment in this day and age? It is difficult in these times to focus on what is important because we like to be distracted so that we do not have to make an effort. We make it far too easy for ourselves and often wish at the same time that some things in our lives were different. However, it is also important to be able to accept that the past in relation to one’s own life path only through a different future gets a different perspective. Decide life wisely.
Too often we forget that luck is not only a moment, but consists of a period of time which often begins with the realization of a happy moment. Whoever understands this will inevitably realize that happiness can be literally sought. Often contentment and happiness can be found by changing the path of one’s life towards the realization of one’s own ideas. Because one thing should be clear, who aligns his life constantly after others and forgets the own wishes should not forget that thereby the chance is reduced to form the own life according to the own expectations.
Patience is something strange, it is like a linkage of hopes and expectations of something in the future that one expects to have correctly foreseen through one’s own knowledge and experience. People who live their lives purposefully and in a balanced way have a higher probability of correctly anticipating a situation that might occur based on their experiences. Conversely, this means that people who are surrounded by a rather hectic everyday life do not have the opportunity and time to deal with such thoughts, which in turn is reflected in lower chances of a better future.
We humans are far too often satisfied with what we have, and often realize later that we have only convinced ourselves of this state to avoid a change. Many of the things we take hold of and experience not only influence the moment, but also the time beyond. Through stagnation, change is rarely generated by its own power. Life consists of a collective that brings constant change with it anyway and makes change possible at all.
Nothing is permanent, everything changes. This applies to ourselves as well as to the life around us. Whoever understands this can look for possibilities to draw new strength from his own reality. For example, by renewing old friendships,or by looking for new hobbies to gain new experiences. In the end, however, it is always up to you to change yourself. External influences control your life only as long as you allow it. There is nothing more important in life than discovering and learning to appreciating one’s own self, because those who can no longer count on themselves will begin to lose their own ego over time.