Nothing is permanent, everything changes. This applies to ourselves as well as to the life around us. Whoever understands this can look for possibilities to draw new strength from his own reality. For example, by renewing old friendships, or by looking for new hobbies to gain new experiences. In the end, however, it is always up to you to change yourself. External influences control your life only as long as you allow it. There is nothing more important in life than discovering and learning to appreciating one’s own self, because those who can no longer count on themselves will begin to lose their own ego over time.
If you love your life, you should act accordingly. Otherwise, life will respond to you accordingly. Life consists of many facets, and depending on which facets we expose ourselves to, they will affect us accordingly. For example acquaintances or personal interests. It is impossible to perform an action in life without that action affecting yourself. Reality simply consists of too many properties which we cannot understand. If we put ourselves in the situation of trying to understand what we simply cannot understand by our own actions, then we can only fail.
If someone accepts everything unconditionally in life, one will lose oneself as a result over time. The life as we know it lives from decisions and the decisions of the thoughts of us people with which we confront each other. Who constantly submits to these facts forgets with the time to assert and represent his own will to others, which in turn represents the quintessence of the personality of each person. So it is important to develop your own opinion and attitude towards different matters over time, because if you don’t do that, you will inevitably always have to accept the understanding of other people, even if you don’t like it.
If you move in the same circle for too long, you will inevitably suffer a kind of whiplash at some point. We humans are living beings who tend to experience new things in order to constantly bring ourselves forward and to be able to grow further through what we have experienced. If we constantly expose ourselves to the same, we unintentionally build up our own little cage over time, and without understanding it, it becomes more and more difficult to get out of it by falling into our own indifference.
We yearn far too often for answers that we do not receive anyway.
When you learn to understand the path you have taken in your own past up to the present, your understanding of where that path might lead in the future also grows. Time is not constant, what we can perceive of time is constantly changing due to our own views and perspectives If you do not think about it, the future remains blurred..